Asking for signs from your guides and angels

Do you ever wish you could have some kind of tangible proof that your guides are really there, and that they are really looking out for you? Of course you do. Welcome to being human.

I have total faith in my guides, and yet I still ask for signs. It isn’t a symptom of lack of faith – it’s simply a process we undergo to strengthen our faith.

Do you ever feel that spiritual support is just one area of your life that you just can’t really get any REAL kind of proof in? And that you just have to kind of deal with it? Well, you’re wrong.

Questions with Malavika (2)

I get quite a lot of e-mails from people who are asking a lot of the same questions. As it gets harder for me to respond to every single person, I’ve decided to post the questions I receive through my e-mails for everybody to benefit from the answers I receive. I hope this helps y’all out.

I’ve tried to simplify most of the questions to the root question at hand. I hope you don’t mind. I have, however, included more background details where I felt context was necessary. All questions are anonymous, and posted here to reach out to as many people out there.

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I’m reading a book on how to integrate and nurture intuition into the family members of the home called The Intuitive Spark. It seems many children see Angels as beautiful women. Do children choose to see Spirits in beautiful female forms because it’s safer or do the Spirits present themselves this way so not to frighten them?

I can definitely see why you may think so, but I am not sure this is the complete reason. Of course it is definitely a big part of it, as spirits in essence are formless. They either take form in order for us to understand and receive them better, or we give them a form for us to understand and receive them better. So there is a great chance that your children are giving them a pleasant form that they can feel safe around. Also, higher-level beings usually have a prevalent masculine or feminine energy. It is possible that your children are simply connected to beings who seem to be presenting themselves as feminine. Feminine energy is not “girly” energy. It’s a nurturing energy, which is probably what children need an abundance of in their life. So, it makes sense. Actually, interestingly enough, many angels I encounter are females (have feminine energy).

How can you use your abilities to find lost items and do you do this? I keep losing things!

Totally! If you’re working on your abilities, you might as well put them to use. This is a great exercise because it gives you immediate results/feedback (whether you find the item or not.) I simply take a moment to ground myself, and then raise my vibration (deep breathing, getting into a meditative state, focusing my mind on my intention of finding the lost object), then I call in Miss Prescot or my higher self and I affirm “If it is in my highest good to find ____ right now, please take me to it right now.” I then walk without knowing where I am walking to. I walk with determination and confidence, and open the drawer and viola! I am primarily claircognizant so I don’t really “hear” where it is, I just “know” it, and find it. This takes a lot of practice and I don’t always find my object. But it sure is helpful. I’ve found many things this way.

It is also important to ask yourself why you are losing these objects. Is there a sign to be found in it?

My mother passed away just a few months ago, and the wound is still very open and raw for me. It’s a process and I understand that. I miss her so much. I guess my question is, does she miss me too? Do the people who have passed on miss us?

So your question is, do the dead miss us? No, they do not. They are not just in a “better place”, they are probably in the “best place ever!!!” They are connecting with a divine God-Like energy. They are feeling complete bliss and nirvana. They are putting the puzzle pieces of their time on earth together. They are watching over their life and understanding their joys and sadness. They are of course, very aware of our suffering on earth. They are aware of how much we miss them and they try to give us signs that they are okay. But of course, in our deepest and darkest grief, we are unable to see it. So, they try other ways to get our attention, like coming into our dreams, putting the perfect song on the radio etc. They listen to our sadness, our anger, our fears, or prayers, or messages to them. They are so present and so near, they are just in a different form. So no, the dead do not “miss you” the way you miss them, but they love you more than you could ever imagine.

How heavily do you work with the past lives of your clients?

Generally not much, but it depends on how much I feel their past life is affecting their current life. Knowing you were an Egyptian princess in the past life may well be interesting and fun, but unless that information can help you make changes in this life, what’s the point? However, if you endured a violent abusive relationship in your past life, which I feel is linked to why you have such huge blocks towards men in this life – I will probably bring it up. Remember that the issues you fail to resolve in a past life will come up again in this life, so in that sense, looking into your past life can be majorly helpful in your present life transformation.

Who do you talk to more, your guides or your higherself?

A little bit of both – or maybe I should say a lot of both!

What is the name of the most recent guide you met?

Atticus. I met him maybe 4 days ago during a pre-nap meditation.

What is your take on crystal healing?

I am quite unfamiliar with crystal healing. I have never done enough of it to give it a thumbs up or a thumbs down. So, this warrants further investigation!

I do like crystals though and like to keep pretty ones in my home.

What other areas of spirituality are you interested in personally? (Eg. numerology, crystal healing, reiki)

I am interested in numerology, palmistry, astrology and channeling. I am also interested in medical intuition and hope to develop that in my upcoming years in medical school. Of course I am interested in all kinds of spiritual wellness, but I can be pretty picky about what I choose to pursue.

Do you set new year’s resolutions?

Yes. But I don’t really call them “resolutions” – I call them my goals, and I achieve them. Every New Year, I spend some time connecting, and setting my goals. New years are enormously powerful for me.

How can I learn to trust my psychic abilities? I think that is my biggest problem?

Ah, trust me, it’s everybody’s biggest problem! Sometimes, even just connecting is easy -  but to be able to trust the guidance you are receiving and to actually recognize it as that – that’s the tricky part. I think every intuitive struggles with this at some point in their life, so you are not alone. The only thing that allows you trust anything is validation. It’s the same thing for your psychic abilities. You have to keep practicing, and keep checking back, to track your progress, to see how accurate you are, receive feedback, and test yourself. Most importantly – keep a consistent practice and always be open to checking for validation. If you share with a friend a “feeling” you’ve been having about them, check up on it a few months later to see how accurate you are. The more you start to acknowledge your accurateness and correctness, the more you start to trust your abilities and have lots of confidence in them. It takes time but believe me, it is worth it.

What happens when you die?

This is certainly a question that we have already, or will one day ask ourselves. What will happen to be when I die? Will I be reincarnated (is there such a thing?)? Do I get a choice in the matter? What if I don’t want to come back to earth? Can I stay and watch my family grow? Can I come back and spook people out?

When I give readings for people and I speak with deceased loved ones, I catch glimpses of what the afterlife may be like. I’ve never consciously existed on that plane, but it sort of feels like looking through a keyhole. Along with this, I have asked my guide Miss Prescot, about life after death and what it is really like. This is what I know and believe:

What is death?

Death is a shift in energy. We all know that energy cannot be created on destroyed- it simply changes form. During our “death”, we shift from our human form into a spirit form.

I get it, I get it, but does it hurt?

From what I have learned, death does not “hurt”, just as it does not hurt the ice cube to turn into water. It simply happens when the conditions are right. I do believe that death can, at times be “uncomfortable”. Miss Prescot likens it to trying to fit through a small door. It can take some squeezing, some squishing, some pushing and pulling, but it doesn’t “hurt”, it just takes some adjustment. It also depends greatly on the way you die. If it is a gradual decrease in energy – such as a disease –you are likely to just feel weaker and weaker as you put more focus on a different form of your energy. If it is a sudden death – such as being in an accident –I believe it feels as though the energy shift happens faster and therefore could be either effortless or you may experience feelings of pressure or slight discomfort.  The important thing to remember is that these sensations last for a very short period of time. Human and physical sensations are truly limiting when it comes to the true spectrum of “experience”, as once we die, one of the first things we realize is that there is more than just “this feels good” and “this feels bad”.

And then what?

You usually spend some time “traveling” – where you climb to a higher frequency. Here you may experience your loved ones who have been waiting to welcome you to the highest love and light. People describe this part as traveling through a tunnel of light, approaching and even brighter light at the end of. Others describe it as a white light room where they experience the pure love of those who love them. It’s whatever you want.

And then what?

And then you create.

What does that mean?

You do as you do on earth, and you create your experience. The only difference is that in spirit form, the law of attraction is instantaneous. There is no time delay as there is on earth (imagine if we didn’t have a time delay on earth – and everything we thought about manifested instantly? It would be chaos!!). So, if you think about your sister who was waiting by the hospital bed as you passed on, you would instantly be with her. If you thought about a red Ferrari, you instantly have a red Ferrari. But, what are you gonna do with a red Ferrari in the spirit world? Well, I don’t really know.

This is one part of the afterlife that most people struggle with the most. It’s difficult to get used to how powerful you really are, when you just spent the last 80+ years on earth finding experiences to convince you that you weren’t. It’s a steep learning curve, but pretty soon you learn to control your thoughts and consciousness to only attract and manifest the highest good.

Does Hell exist?

Sure. Remember what I said about the law of attraction, and how everything you think about focus on manifests instantly? Well, if you think about “hell” and believe that you belong there, you would experience hell instantly. The good thing is that, as soon as you start disliking your experience of being in this hell you have created (which I bet won’t take very long), you attract something else (probably something much nicer – like a land made of ice cream. Yum).

Does heaven exist?

Look around you, hotcakes!

Do I get to see how my world continues without me in it?

Yes you do (if you choose to), but first you have to dos something more important. You have to watch “the movie of your life”. Here you will experience “watching” your life. All the decisions you made, all the decisions you avoided. The good ones, the bad ones, the good relationships, the sucky relationships, the people you love, the people you hurt, the people that loved you, your greatest challenges and your overcoming of them, your greatest challenges and your fear of them, your greatest teachers, your love, your pain, the lessons your learned and failed to learn, your first boyfriend who gave you a promise ring, your dysfunctions, your delusions, your truth. Everything. Here you have time to review your human life – from start to finish. What was good? What was great? What do you need to do better? Did you fulfil your life purpose? All those unanswered questions you have – well they will be answered here.

Great! Now can I see how my world continues without me in it?

Yes you can! If you choose to, you can watch your family and friends on earth grieve their precious loss, and then eventually move on with their life.

Can I move things around and give them signs that I am still with them?

Yes, although at this stage of your evolution you are still a lower energy spirit. This means you haven’t yet graduated to “the light” just yet, and so you are not as powerful as you could be. You might find moving things are tricky at times, as it requires a great deal of energy and also the shifting of energy (from spirit form to the kind that can move physical objects. It’s tricky). You can definitely try though, and you may well surprise yourself. You can also help give your loved ones on earth little “nudges” to take a particular route to work, or to be at a certain place at a certain time so that they cane experience a magical synchronicity that reassures them that you are near.

At this time, will I be very attached to my loved ones?

Yes and no. You will still love them and care for them, and have some biases about them (As you have yet to go into the next dimension), but you will also have a deeper understanding for life and how it is working for them.

So I’ve watched the movie of my life, and hung around my family for a little bit, now what can I do?

Now you have three options. You can:

Graduate ‘Guide’ School

You may choose to become a person’s guide. In order to do this, there is a certain level of “schooling” you have to complete. When I say schooling, I don’t mean just sitting in a classroom taking a social studies class. What I mean is that you simply begin increasing your frequency and travelling into the different dimensions of the spirit world (I believe that are 5-7 dimensions. I believe the first 5 are related to guides, angels and masters, and the last 2 are related to the experience of God and oneness – see the third option “experience oneness).

Once you graduate, someone’s higher self will contact you and say “Hey, I really need a guide down there. Could you help?” and you will probably say “Hell yes!!” and BAM, you have your first client.

If you choose not to be a guide, you will simply be a higher level being, just chillaxin’ and watching over the universe.

Reincarnate

You may choose to reincarnate onto earth again. Why would you want to do that? Because only through living on earth can you experience and grow through suffering. If you do choose to reincarnate, you will go through the process of selecting your life, your parents, your soulmate, and BAM, you’re back on earth doing the whole “human thing” –buying a latte on your way to work, falling in love, going to the gym, getting your heart broken, healing that broken heart, working through family issues, getting a raise, getting fired, making friends, losing friends, learning a sport, facing your fears, calling in sick to work. Yeah, you know what I’m talking about.

Experience oneness

You may choose to experience oneness, which is to experience God. When I see beings in this form, I see them in a cocoon of light, experience ultimate bliss and nirvana. Beings who have committed suicide on earth enter this dimension as soon as they pass on in order to undergo the healing process. I cannot speak to spirits in this dimension. I imagine it is because the yare in too great a frequency for me to access, and also, I’m pretty sure they don’t want to be disturbed (“Hang on. I’ll be with you in a moment. I’m just experiencing ultimate ecstasy.” Likely story.)